Wording
Wedding invitation wording examples
Wording is where most couples get stuck. Below are examples you can copy and adapt — the structure stays the same, only the tone changes.
Formal
- Together with their families, Ana Ruiz and Daniel Ortega request the honour of your presence at their marriage.
- Mr and Mrs Peter Lane request the pleasure of your company at the marriage of their daughter Claire to James Fielding.
- We invite you to share in the joy of our wedding ceremony, followed by dinner and dancing.
Modern
- We're getting married — and we'd love you there.
- Two families, one very good party. Join us as we say I do.
- Save the day, bring your dancing shoes, and celebrate with us.
Relaxed and short
- Ana & Daniel are tying the knot. Come eat, drink and dance with us.
- Good food, loud music, and us getting married. Details below.
- No fuss, just family, friends and a long lunch.
The awkward lines
- Adults only: We love your little ones, but this celebration is for adults.
- No gifts: Your presence is the present. If you'd like to give something, a contribution to our honeymoon means a lot.
- Dress code: Semi-formal — think summer suits and long dresses.
- RSVP: Please reply by 12 May so we can confirm numbers with the venue.
Frequently asked questions
- Whose names go first?
- Traditionally the hosts, then the couple. Modern invitations often lead with the couple and mention families in a second line.
- Should I include the reception on the same invitation?
- Yes if everyone is invited to both. If the reception list is smaller, keep it on a separate page or send a different link.
- How do I ask for money instead of gifts politely?
- Frame it as optional and specific — a honeymoon, a home fund — and put it at the bottom, never in the opening lines.
- What RSVP deadline should I set?
- Three to four weeks before the wedding, which normally leaves a week before the venue needs final numbers.