Birthdays
Birthday invitation wording ideas
Birthday wording should set expectations in one line: what kind of party this is, and how long it lasts. Everything else is detail.
Kids' parties
- Mia is turning five! Come and help us make a mess.
- Cake, games and one very excited six-year-old. Join us on Saturday.
- Drop-off party from 3 to 5pm — snacks and chaos provided.
Milestone birthdays
- Thirty. Somehow. Come celebrate with us.
- Four decades deserve a proper dinner. Join me on 14 June.
- Fifty years, one long lunch, and everyone I like in the same room.
Low-key celebrations
- No speeches, no theme, just dinner and good company.
- Drinks at ours from eight. Come when you can.
The practical lines
- No gifts, please — just bring yourself.
- Party ends at 5pm sharp so the birthday girl can nap.
- Let us know by Wednesday so we can order the right amount of food.
Frequently asked questions
- Should I put an end time on the invitation?
- Yes for children's parties and anything with catering. It sets expectations for parents and the venue.
- How do I ask for no gifts?
- Say it once, warmly, near the end of the invitation. Guests appreciate the guidance.
- How far ahead should I send a birthday invitation?
- Two to four weeks is usually right; add more time in December or holiday periods.
- Do I need an RSVP for a small party?
- If you are ordering food or booking a table, yes. Even ten guests are worth counting.